And isn’t that—respect, a willingness to learn, an openness to faith—really what we, as Jews, want in our partners?
” Lived it “I’ve lived with two non-Jewish partners, and those were the most observant times in my life. In contrast, I was once engaged to a Chabad woman whose father cut it off because I wouldn’t become observant enough. We’re all so many things and can connect with others on so many different planes that it’s hard for me to say dating Jews or non-Jews has had any unique effect.
I crave a partner who is equally strong, and I haven’t found that in Jewish men of my age. Am I likely to have children with a Jewish partner?
My healthiest long-term relationships have been with recovering Catholics and practicing Unitarians. No.” It’s exciting “It’s more important to me that our politics and attitudes toward relationships are aligned.
I need a partner with whom I feel a sense of shared Jewish heritage, and who will join me in incorporating Jewish practices and values into our life together.” It’s not enough “I like dating Jews, but being Jewish is not enough.
I went on more than my fair share of dates, mostly with Jewish guys.
I feel that those who are definitively against intermarriage do not have a realistic vision of the future of the Jewish people.” Shared heritage “Yes, I will only date Jews.
Not for any ideological reason, but because Judaism is central to my life and my identity, and has been all my life.
Rhetoric that ‘It’s exhausting to have to explain all the time’ doesn’t ring true for me at all.” Time will tell “On the one hand, my parents always hammered it in that serious relationships between Jews and non-Jews never work out.
However, if that can be done in a thoughtful way with a partner who is not Jewish, I am open to that.
What I do know is that I want the Jewish community to be a welcoming place to all people, couples and families, regardless of origin.
I feel cultural similitude with Catholics because they make up half of my family too.
I know matrilineal descent is the (practice) of the Western Judaism I primarily follow, but I intend to raise my kids Jewish (maybe alongside other things), whether their mother is or becomes Jewish or not.